How to Be Invisible

easier than you may think. first you have to be male.

next go into a bar, club etc.

go alone. the less people you have with you the more you look like a loser

so you're alone. male. in a bar. congratulations: you're invisible. only person to talk with you probably is the bartender/waitress who wants your money. since you're alone and there's a good chance you drove, you shouldn't drink much. so not as much point in being in a bar.

and no one will care of you. good chance you'll be pushed aside, looked over, marginalized. good test: go to a booth. let's say the place is crowded. if folks need to sit there, let them.. see how much you get pushed aside so they have their space.

by contrast: you're female (not necessarily attractive), in a bar, alone, no money. see how much you get approached, asked if you want a free drink. i had a female roommate, disgusting, never exercised (barely walked, honestly), rat face, didn't bathe much, cheap fuck (goes with the territory of most women). the few times we went to clubs she was approached a lot more than i ever was when alone at a bar.

and attractive women are RARELY alone in bars. life isn't the fucking flicks. a lonely woman is more vulnerable and the pack often will approach more.