Weddings and Marriage: YOur Loved Ones

as much as i've written against weddings and marriage, ultimately, when  a loved one is going thru with it, i suppose your views don't matter for that time, person etc. 


if ur a good one for them, you put your effort out towards them to make it a special day, the best possible. that's what you're supposed to do.


 and, expect the same in return someday. even if marriage is a light year a way, eh? .


 and enjoy the party too i guess.


 maybe i'm going back on my words but again the day is theirs, not mine, this time.


 though i guess i keep the details to a minimum to keep myself from being too annoyed: e.g. looking at the registries, all the gifts, so many bought already, is a labor.