Real Deal: Marriage Definitions

battle royal (wedding)

let's grow up, lose the naivete, admit what really happens so much of the time

celebrity marriage=: business partnerships. you know they'll usually break up in an AVERAGE  of  a couple of years, but in the mean time, the power couple gets  more press, parts, money, etc,  which is the most concrete  production of their coupling. .

weddings=fund raisers. know i said  this one already but what are  the difference between political fund raisers where you pay up to hundreds per meal, to politicians, and giving couples wedding showers, engagement parties, bachelor parties, weddings etc

marriage=wed LOCK. notice more letters in the second word. notice the word automatically gives feelings of imprisonment. TIL DEATH. and even beyond: SOUL MATE.

weddings=personal fiefdoms: like personal kingdoms: mom and dad as the passing  royalty, , divine right to the couple, then a whole hierarchy around them: upper class=the wedding party, relatives are the distant royals, other guests are the bourgeoisie, etc.

Overrun by Pussy and a Bitch

have to take care of the bitch a lot. big black bitch.  go out  with her, pick up her crap, bondage, discipline, bitch likes to eat and drink, bitch lies around a lot,  heavy petting, not too much on the nips. bitch usually follows me everywhere like a shadow. but  bitch ran away today, but bitch always comes  back. likes to sniff around a lot. bitch gets around the block.  i ignored the bitch to punish her.

pussy comes and pussy goes. black pussy. white pussy. pussy needs to be petted some times, hunger  satisfied  sometimes, go out some times, talk some times, wet some times. place is some times crawling with pussy. not sure where pussy goes  a lot of the time. pussy all over the neighborhood. some pussy is never around  but they all seem to like heavy petting some times too. pussy even likes to follow me around some times, folks cant believe it.

so if u didn't know, yeah im pet sitting this week: 2 dogs, 1 female, big and black, and 2 cats, one black one white..

Is the American RRR (Reactionary Radical Right) becoming too Mainstream?

o.gs: old gangster organized crime:   torture, black sites, extraordinary renditions, the highest office in the land  ignoring the highest law of the land, illegal war, crapping  on habeous corpus,  most Americans not giving a shit how many tens of thousands of innocents are killed by our military and government (support the troops!). that's was off the top of my head.

Right (wing)  and Might gives them  the Right?:

• the second largest worldwide religion being run out of one of the most diverse cities in America because of clear and present bigotry
• the Tea party, which is supposed to be more educated and affluent than the "average American", has 30 percent  of it's membership believing that the president is foreign born, clearly because he's black
• even the NY Times is running a front page article on a radical anti Islamic book burning preacher
• most Americans not giving a shit how many tens of thousands of innocents are killed by our military and government (support the troops!). 
• the defense, in public Congressional hearings, of BP by, surprise, a Republican Texas Congressman (probably with oil ties). 
• more don't mess with Tex: history being written by politicians instead of historians, 

i know that we still have high unemployment, trouble in other lands, differences, problems. but we can't have the extremists take such a mainstream position. that leads to even more danger: McCarthyism, internment camps, more war crimes, more war. 

wasn't it Bush himself that said that he couldn't believe he beat prosperity and peace in 2000, and then systematically and unbelievably destroyed so much of it? 

Walking the Cat continued

this week im house and pet sitting and this time have 2 dogs and 2 cats under my care. and again, doesn't matter if  we have multiple dogs with us, even ones that like to chase cats: they still follow our family. 

same black cat of my sister's, following her or me,  with her big black dog and her friend's dog that likes to chase cats.  doesn't seem to matter much: he loves to come along even when threatened a bit, often walks right with us, is there often at the beginning  when we call. no leash.  gallops, trots, sniffs, checks out folks' yards. whatever road we want to take. also doesn't matter if i have friends along that are total strangers. 

 i read that cats can have a pretty big radius outside of their home to roam, but still haven't read about folks walking their cats, much less 3 generations of it. 

have to get it on tape one of these days.

Strip Joint Run ins with Haiti's Future President (wink)

years ago when i started to live in NYC, i was supporting myself for a while in a job at the Flashdancers chain of strip joints, as a men's room attendant. contrary to what you may be thinking now, no, as far as i could tell there wasn't any masturbation in there (not that i would want to know). there was however a lot of cocaine snorted, almost like there was an extra pipe in there that flowed white powder into the stall. 

i worked at one of them down in the Financial district. actually pretty close to the World Trade center before... interesting, a location that;s so "sacred" (not the WTC, which is, but nearby?), yet i think there are 2 nearby titty bars and even worse, Wall street parasites everywhere, yet folks that practice the world's second largest religion are given a hard go.

Wycliffe john and the i think some of the other "Refugees" i suppose  were out looking for some of man's basics of survival,  and our club seemed to be an oasis. keep in mind i was only there a couple times a week tops. at least as an employee (just kidding, no need for a busman's holiday, wink). but  i would see them pretty often. at times  i would talk to Wycliffe when he was pissing, didn't usually do that, hope i didn't bother him too much. not  a big tipper maybe because of that--one time he actually tipped me with a guitar pic. if it was one of them from "Gone til November' maybe i would've been more impressed.


yes i know i should write more of the strip joints later.

Bigotry: "Ground Zero" (Tolerance) Mosque

"O.K" Mosque: Malcolm X's

 i live in Harlem and i've driven thru Brooklyn many times. i've been near  many mosques. i've never heard a bomb go off, never read about it, seen it, etc. surprise: this recent bigotry is not really against Muslims (keep in mind the nation with the most of them is Indonesia, an Asian nation). it's against  Mid-easterners. so it's literally (at least in Iraq)  double barrelled bigotry. 


how many of my brethren  of Irish decent have condemned the mosque? when the Irish  came to this nation en masse, the natives were saying the same about us: go back to where you came from, we don't need Catholics here etc.

FANATICS killed innocents on Sept 11.  how many "patriots", "god loving Americans", "simple folk", "freedom fighters", "regular folk", etc have killed TENS OF THOUSANDS OF MUSLIMS OVER -SEAS!!!????

the Financial district is right near ground zero too. you know, the place that ruined so many lives of Americans during the financial crisis which blasted out in  fall 2008. any calls to get them out of the area because of their awful practices? when in comparison the organizers of the mosque are pretty damn  innocent.

of course it's terrible to have big government and "heartland politics" overreaching their jurisdiction to another area, except in this case, it's perfectly o.k for some local politician down south to act  and involve himself in our local politics, right right?

Excuse me: Away at Martha's Vinyard

apologies for not writing more but as mentioned i took a little trip to the Vineyard. will be writing bigger and better soon. was a good time though, if u've never been there: some good beaches, chicks, seafood, nature and scenery. traveled good too: 2 old good friends, when we get together we don't fight as much, lots in common, culture, humor. u wud think 3's a crowd, 2 would turn on the one but no. anyway more later as i said. thanks for reading still. have to admit being away from the computer a little was nice.

Martha's Vineyard weekend

Martha's Vineyard lighthouse

yeah i have the opportunity to go,  a friend of mine is into it. 


but  remember biggest meteor shower of year is peaking late Thurs nite to Fri a.m. check weather forecast, not much of a moon. will also be good other days: http://earthsky.org/tonight/wheres-the-radiant-point-for-the-perseids. 


so i'll try to write postings and schedule them for a couple of days. and i should be able to predict the future with pin point accuracy haha. haven't done the scheduling deal yet so hopefully it goes.. 


also watch out for Fri 13. 


i'll be with 2 of my old friends. male. off the coast of Cape cod. camping. sharing tents?  beach. looking at the stars. sun downs.  for days. totally heterosexual bromance! 

Kill the Cliche: "I Need to Win the Lottery"

 i can go into the "love of money is the root of all evil" deal. but  if you've done  any kind of minimal, hearsay type research about lottery winners, quick money earners etc you would find:

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• a great many of them got their money and were miserable not long after. their friends left them, they were very unhappy. people will be  jealous of you and act it out. more folks gun it.  
• the term 'power corrupts' should be applied to their lives: money corrupts, as in  your life. mo money mo problems. leeches, drugs, , vices, extravagant lifestyles are built up especially if you're "novae riche". it can get out of hand and out of control  quick. it's happened so many times before. 
• if you have all that money then you have reason to never be employed. unemployment, retirement, kills.  life insurers  used to do (maybe still do) calculations on how long your life expectancy is. if you're retired, they literally  subtract  years off. ever hear of occupational therapy? 

so please end the  cliche, the bullshit dream, that  everyone says.  don't be an idiot and just  see the surface glam,  and not do the research on what happens after the "happily ever after". 

8/8?

solar time

as i mentioned before im into  numerology a bit, like with  Fri the 13 and 26th, Sunday oneday etc.

but many try to do it on days like this, so called 8/8, August 8. but you have to realize  that the calendar month names don't line up numerically: September (Sept) is supposed to be the 7th month, October the 8th etc. ..

Spring, e.g. the Equinox, is in March, and that's where i think a lot of calendars started. as ours is supposed to: if you count, the 7th month from March is Sept,  etc. as a Pagan i agree with that.

starting the calendar year Jan 1st, Jesus' circumcision (which it almost certainly wasn't just as his birth is most certainly not Dec 25), was decided by some monk in the mid ages or something. the new year then, for some reason.

so Aug 8 doesn't line up, but Oct 8 would. 8 8. more about that later probably.

US Diplomacy: Straightening Up, Flying Correct?

from Hiroshima Peace Park

at least after Bush and his right wing: illegal war, unilateralism, ignorance of international treaties, ignoring our own Constitution when dealing with foreigners, staying clear of international treaties. you know: dark ages of American internationalism. and im not 100 percent pro Obama, but as soon as he was inaugurated, improvements on the diplomatic front.

• today was the 65th anniversary of a day that really should live in infamy: Hiroshima's bombing. finally, finally, America sent a representative, an ambassador i think. 
• Obama's administration has been much more open to countries like Cuba,  Russia, and tougher on some nations that have it coming like Israel.   not just conversing with oil producers. i still have in my head Bush literally holding hands and going along with some big shot  from Saudi Arabia i think.  one of Earth's worst regimes.
• more open to European methods like  health care
• more open to limiting nukes. .
• the above while having to clean up after Bush's awful wars, cowboy diplomacy, isolationism, chauvinism, hypocrisy

as i said there's much im not happy about: Guantanamo, American hypocrisy with nukes, American build up of troops in Afghanistan (after winning the Nobel peace prize). but again, progress after one of the worst administrations in our history

Remembering the Passing of a Former Friend

who died on this day, not long before I left L.A.. she lived next to me  for a couple of years. nice, smart, good sense of humor, not very old. but unfortunately unhealthy, overweight, seemingly isolated. didn't get exercise, drove everywhere, may have smoked, didn't clean much.

in truth i really didn't know much about her. i thought i overheard her once, talking to some one on the phone, saying that she wasn't happy, didn't know what to do. of course hotlines (if that's what it was) are often a desperate resort. this is one of those times you look back: you wish you could have done more.

and that includes her end: she fell sick, was even more immobile. i think a friend was coming over to help. i remember one time though that she didn't seem to have water on a very hot summer L.A. day so i got her some. then  i went to the desert, to my job, soon after. i came back and she was deceased. i wondered what happened, if she gave up, didn't take care etc.

as usual i try to learn from passings of others. and wish there was more, to do, for her etc. hope for better in future.

America the Backward

closed prison

do we realize how much,  in this "greatest god given nation in the history of this earth" or whatever the asshole Sean Hannity says?

• most of the industrialized world (Europe, Canada, etc): free health care, higher quality of life, more peace, cheaper higher education, higher life expectancy, lower infant mortality, more time off from jobs. America: at times violent opposition to health care, huge differences between poor, rich, middle, biggest military industrial complex in history, exorbitant prices for college, higher crime rates, struggling middle class.
• again most of the industrialized world: more gay rights for marriage and military service. that includes much of S America. gays can also openly serve in places like Catholic Ireland, Italy and Spain,  Russia. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation_and_military_service
• America often builds up the reputation of the rich, putting people like Trump, Paris Hilton, asshole athletes, "successful" criminals like Charlie sheen, up on a pedestal, saying that they deserve their money, their success, they've worked hard etc. the poor are often seen as lazy, stupid, uneducated, McDonald eating, smoking, welfare sponging. in Europe etc the percentage of people that think that the poor's lot is their own fault is much lower. hence more of a safety net, more views that more problems are social diseases like drugs.
• side note: New York City has had drops in crime since the early 90s like most other American cities, but the prison rate is also dropping. not true for other cities and the nation which builds prisons more than any other nation. e.g in Brooklyn near borough hall there's a closed jail. again if lower level, less violent criminals are not locked up as much, where their problems can be seen as social problems, and they are given more access to rehab, crime rates and [prison populations can go down. http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/11/nyregion/11jails.html?scp=1&sq=New%20york%20prison%20population&st=cse

What Would You Like to See on Film?

i am a camera? 

if i haven't said it enough,  i'd like to thank the readers of this blog (kind of don't like when sites  call them "followers," like it's a cult or something).  i very much appreciate it. i like  writing the posts, and i appreciate you all, you're one of the entities that keep me going even when i don't feel motivated, which improves me, my writing, YOUR LIVES,  THE WORLD , , FOREVER! haha. 


anyway it's relatively easy to write and blog, but i think it's time to film. im just too pretty to be kept at a computer haha,  so i'll be doing a naked webcam show (kidding). but i want to film some of my material, posts etc so feel free to let me know what you think is filmable, what you'd like to see filmed, posted on YouTube etc. and yes i'll try to post it here.  feel free to air you opinions. i'll be filming pretty soon probably. thanks. also if you want to get involved in the filming let me know, but i'm not promising, it takes a lot of effort to film and the smaller the shoot the easier. probably do it up in W Chester: more room, facilities etc. 

Oneday Sunday Funday: Numerology

i don't know how much relevance is really in it but im into numerology a little, think it's interesting at least. 


i wonder if we should have special activities  for days of the week that line up with their numbers. . e.g. the first, one day: Sunday or Mon. the 2nd, twos day--Tuesday. 3rd day, Thursday. you can also maybe go with 11th, 22nd, etc.


  should we be pathologically  obsessed with that number on  that day like 2 Face in Batman? or like  someone with ocd (not my type) that does everything once,  twice etc? for the hell of it? should we play a bunch of lottery numbers with those numbers  in them?   we already have special days like Friday the 13th.


of course all these days have real meanings that are different: , Monday means  moon day: should we check out the moon those days? on Thursday, Thor's day , should we work with hammers? 


i didn't make this method up really:  in the show Friends, Joey remembers the days of the week similarly: Monday one day, Tuesday 2s day etc.